“What should I listen to?” is an honest question, but it gives a record-shop worker a very large world to search. A little detail makes the conversation easier for both of you.
Mention two or three things you actually enjoy, then say what you like about them. It could be the roomy drum sound, a voice that feels conversational, or songs that take their time. Ordinary language is useful here. Technical vocabulary is optional.
Explain whether you want something close to those records or a step away. Those are different requests. If you have a budget, a preferred format, or equipment limitations, say so before someone has pulled a stack of expensive pressings from the shelves.
A recommendation is an invitation, not an obligation to perform good taste. You may listen and decide it is not for you. If there is time, explaining one thing that did or did not connect can help refine the next suggestion.
When a record does work, remember who recommended it. On a later visit, that shared reference becomes a starting point. A good shop relationship grows through these modest exchanges, with less pressure than the fantasy of immediately discovering the most important album you have never heard.
